PoE Ephemeral Edge, Cold builds without Lightning Strike

A few people have been talking about the potential of ephemeral edge, trying to work around the low attack speed. One way to not care about attack speed is to do ignite build. This has several big more multipliers, a decently fun playstyle if you don't mind slow slamming, big aoe from elementalist and huge tanky potential from a fat ES pool. It also scales very well with gear. Warning: super slow attacking melee build, certainly not for everyone (it might even just be unplayable). PoB: This pob is a fairly realistic day 3-4 version with 9k energy shield, 1.8mi

Plan is a 3-4 man party, 2 of them are playing some jank dps carry with the tornado combo. A buddy is playing curse support, and my goal is to give to the party a juiced Detirm, Grace, Dis, Haste is optional but id love to, vitality And if possible a really solid regen with " doesnt have to be just that but id like alot of passive regen. Cant seem to get what im lookin for outside of just raw doggin it with stupid level hopes and extreme gear [